This is my 3rd year and each year I pray for guidance. During the summer of this year I asked a man up the street if he might like to help me garden and I would so gladly pay him. He did a terrific job and he needed the money. Then my friend hired him, and her friend hired him. However, even with these small jobs he and his family were still struggling. So I took my jar down to their house. At first there was a refusal but I asked them to do it for me. And happily they accepted it. I know it made me feel good and I am sure it helped them with their Christmas.